1. Fresh breathe
This is the MOST important thing; Fresh breath!! There is nothing worse than kissing someone with a bad breath. If you’ve eaten recently, make sure you brush your teeth before kissing or have gum or a mint to freshen yourself up.

2. Soft lips
It is good to have soft (kissable) lips. If your lips are (too) dry or cracked, they wont feel nice to kiss. Vitamin E oil is great for lips that are cracked, it helps with the healing and also make the lips soft and moist. Or you can use lip gloss or a little bit of Vaseline/ lip balm.

3. Positioning
This can be one of the most worrying things when you haven’t kissed anyone before. First of all make sure that the mood and time are right. Stand close to your partner, and see which way they are tilting their head. tilt your head slightly in the opposite direction, put your arms around your partner and start kissing. Closing your eyes is optional.

4. Open your lips
Gently open your mouth and softly nudge your partners mouth open using your tongue. Move your tongue inside the your partners mouth and playfully touch their tongue. Let the kiss develop itself.

5. Use your hands…
I know, it can be difficult; Where to let your hands (certainly by your first kiss)? You can run your fingers through his hair, stroke his face, … do something sensual and loving with your hands. You will discover what difference this will make. And believe me, your partner do like it, especially when you make the kiss a whole body experience

6. Don’t forget to breathe!
Breathe through your nose, gently, and concentrate on enjoying the kiss. 

7. Don’t push
Start off with a normal kiss, not too firm, not too aggressive. Make sure your kiss is enjoyable. A kiss will be un-enjoyable when you or your partner put too much pressure on you (your partner). It even can hurt!.  So match that pressure, through feel how hard they are pushing.
 
 

8. Experiment
Kissing is pure fun (and helps you to make you more in the mood for sex). But in first place meant to be fun. Don’t be afraid for experiment with kisses, for example: Slow motion kisses, a fast/passionate kiss, A French Kiss or little baby kisses. Since French Kissing is "wetter" than other kinds of kissing it is a good idea to start with dry lips, don’t lick them first. If your partner is a great kisser, don’t forget to compliment your partner afterwards.

Do you have a kissing tip to share with us? Please leave a comment!
 

Ofcourse is music something personal, but maybe you have totally no mind of music or you are so nervous that you can’t choose anymore.
Here a small list that does it certainly good in the bedroom.

Your body is a wonderland – John Mayer
The National – Fake Empire
Je T’aime… Moi Non Plus-Jane Birkin & Serge Gainsbourg
Tear the Room Apart – Favourite Sons
Cream – Prince
Sexual healing – Marvin gaye
Undress Me Now – Morcheeba
Love -John Lennon
By your side – Sade
One -U2
Justify My Love – Madonna
Otherwise – Morcheeba

A tip; mix these numbers with music that you like to come into the mood and create your own bedroom playlist!

Have fun.